Putting on the A/C also seems to disable auto-stop. I don't know about the heater yet though because I just got my Blazer and its hot as all get out where I live lately.Just put it in L9 and it will not "autostop". Doesn't solve the problem but at least you can drive the car.
Your 2019 should still be under warranty. I'd take it in to get checked out. Good luck.